Many individuals who suffer from severe loneliness have virtually no desire to relate to other human beings. On the other hand, many others are so petrified of feeling lonely that they behave in destructive ways in order to screen their condition. Some of these methods of camouflage are neurotic, or in other words, distorted. They are ways in which the individual attempts to cope with loneliness.

It is important to note that these symptoms can also exist in other conditions, where loneliness may not be the prime problem. These symptoms of loneliness include the following:

1. Depression and anxiety

2. Severe and compulsive over-eating, leading to outrageous and dangerous overweight.

3. Oversleeping and/or insomnia. There may be intermittent periods of each.

4. The use of drugs, including barbiturates, amphetamines or alcohol, as well as any combination of destructive possibilities.

5. Serious tendency to be a hypochondriac, with gargantuan concentration on self and fear of any number of illnesses.

6. Forming all kinds of superficial, imperfect and often destructive relationships. Some of the most popular people you know may be the loneliest. Often they “know” many people but don’t really know anyone.

7. Chronic infantilism and dependency on parents or other relatives, and fear of the responsibility of having one’s believe home.

8. Chronic, compulsive promiscuity, in which sex is used as payment for fleeting contacts and in frustrated attempts to feel liked.

9. Psychosomatic illnesses: gastric disturbances, asthmatic attacks, skin eruptions, etc.

10. Hyperactivity, in which the person embarks on a constant merry-go-round of energy-wasting, superficial action without sustained emotional investment or involvement.

Many people who suffer from loneliness are frightened of the closeness that would permit them to develop meaningful relationships. Some of these frightened people feel they have too little to give and that closeness would deplete them and engulf them. They awe the loss of individuality and identity. Others value an imaginary freedom too highly to become fervent with another person or persons, but they nevertheless crave such involvement to soften their intense feelings of loneliness. This conflict – needing people, and at the same time being afraid of people – is quite current. Most people who feel this way truthfully cry out for a relationship to ease their loneliness, but that the same time, they unwittingly put every conceivable block in the way of realizing such a possibility. These men and women, including those who suffer from the 10 symptoms I have listed, often require psychological treatment in order to resolve long-standing personality and related problems.

Many of the loneliest women in the world are women who are married. These are women who, on the surface, seem to enjoy full loves. Even though they have husbands, these women still lack a meaningful one-to-one relationship, one in which an emotional investment (caring for each other) and an emotional exchange (listening to each other) takes place. Unrealized potential makes these married women’s loneliness sadder and more frustrating. These wives and husbands have gradually slipped into separate, encapsulated lives in which they live together and talk together, but fail to share what they actually feel. In short, they are not operating on the same emotional wavelength. They are not communicating emotionally.

In some cases, these husbands and wives can rebuild their emotional bridges by actively joining in all kinds of mutually interesting activities and social endeavors. Going on vacations together, without the children, or taking the time to try to get to know each other again (or for the first time) may be helpful if the couple honestly wants to get back on the same emotional level. To effect such an emotional reconciliation, it is vital for the couple to be open and honest with one another. Some people, unfortunately, can’t cope with their neurotic pride and, therefore, can’t be open enough to tell each other of their loneliness, unhappiness, and need for closer relating. If this neurotic pride has existed for too long, it is often necessary to seek marriage or family therapy with a trained counselor who specializes in marriage and family relationship issues. He or she should be able to work with individuals, couples, and with an entire family unit.

For the recently widowed or divorced person, loneliness can be quite frequent. In such cases, it can be useful to let friends know that you are lonely and that you want to meet new people. It may be difficult to admit this to yourself, let alone to a friend, but it is important to do so. Friends do not want to embarrass or push, so they will often do nothing about introducing a widow or a recently divorced person to new potential mates unless they are asked to do so.

It may be difficult at first to “get back into the swing of things,” to engage in social situations, or to go on vacation alone. But it gets easier with practice. Remember, the sight of a man or a woman alone is getting more and more common in our society. Political clubs, museums, concerts, causes, etc., are all indirect but effective ways of meeting people with similar interests.

Lastly, there are those people who suffer from chronic situational loneliness. These individuals are the sick, the handicapped, the aged, and the hospitalized. They need help wherever and whenever the not-so-unfortunate can provide it. Reaching out to other people in need will almost always work wonders toward conquering your own loneliness .Try it and see!

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Personal experience, education, and specialization in the field of Psychology
Personal experience and education in marriage and family relationships
Personal experience, education, and specialization in personality assessments, traits, and differences
Personal experience and education in social sciences

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The loss of a spouse is devastating and the last thing you want to think about is your financial future. But it is important for women to make a few crucial decisions early on to protect their finances and future security. Making these decisions can be emotionally trying, so having a trusted friend or relative abet can make it easier.

Your first task is to earn organized and locate all the paperwork necessary to file claims or straighten out accounts. Records that you will need include:

Death Certificate – You should have about two-dozen copies of your husband’s death certificate on hand as you will have to use them to collect on insurance policies, retirement benefits, and other death benefits you may be eligible for.

Will – If you and your husband have a will you will need it to settle the estate. If not, you will have to follow your state’s laws concerning estates.

Tax returns – You should find your joint tax returns from the past five years. You many need these to apply for any benefits you have coming to you.

Benefit accounts – Find records of any employee benefit accounts, retirement accounts, stock option plans, insurance policies including homeowners, auto, disability or any umbrella policies you may have.

Investments – Put together any novel statements you may have from stock, IRA, and 401K investment accounts. Make sure you also have recent copies of your checking, savings and any CD or mutual fund accounts too.

Official papers or certificates – Have on hand any birth and marriage certificates along with social security cards, military discharge papers and pre-nuptial agreements.

Having all of these papers in order will make it easier for you to change names on important financial accounts and apply for any benefits coming to you.

Life Insurance: Whether you husband had life insurance through his employer or you had taken out a policy together you will have to apply for this money to receive it. Also, check your homeowners insurance to view if death benefits are included. Some policies include a clause where the mortgage is paid-in-full or partially paid in the event of a spouse’s death.

Benefits: Aside from receiving any life insurance monies you may be eligible for other death benefits. Some important benefits are through Social Security. You may be eligible to collect retirement benefits if you are age 60 and over or age 50 and disabled. Certain death benefits are available to widows and widows with children under age 16. There are also benefits for children whose father is deceased, such as assistance paying for college. You can also receive a special $255 death payment that will serve to pay for funeral fees. But you cannot receive these benefits unless you actually file for them. Contact your local Social Security office as soon as possible for information on filing for these important benefits.

You may also be eligible for veterans’ benefits if your husband served in one of the branches of service. Survivor benefits may include free burial in a national cemetery or you might be eligible to receive money for expenses related to your husband’s funeral, headstone, or cremation services. If your spouse was receiving disability benefits at the time of death you may be able to continue receiving these benefits. You will need to contact the Department of Veterans Affairs to find out what benefits you are eligible for.

If your husband belonged to any organizations such as a labor union, credit union, college alumni group, the American Legion or any other similar organization you may be eligible for insurance benefits or some types of assistance programs. Contact the organization to find out the benefits they may have to offer.
Employee benefits, such as accumulated sick leave, vacation, or PTO that your husband incurred may be available as a payout to you. Contact the Human Resource Manager at your spouse’s company to check on what benefits you have coming.
Most of these benefits you can apply for on your own by having the appropriate papers, however if you have trouble collecting them you may want to consult a lawyer.

By diligently reviewing your financial papers and following up on all benefits that are due to you, you will be on your way to securing a solid financial future that may encourage to alleviate some of the stress you are experiencing through your loss.

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Boy meets girl. Boy falls in like with girl. Boy and girl get married. Boy and girl then find out they are really brother and sister – Twins, even – and have to walk away.

Obtain it hard to swallow? Believe it. It’s real.

In what is sure to be one of the most astonishing stories of 2008, a newly married English couple discovered that they were brother and sister shortly after tying the knot.

Separated at birth, the young man and woman, whose identities are being protectively withheld, had no concept that they were even adopted kids, let alone had a sibling. Let alone that said sibling also happened to be their principal other!

It stretches the boundaries of belief to wonder at this cruel twist of fate. The odds that the two children should happen to meet, happen to tumble in love, and happen to marry are beyond astronomical. That they should learn their love is forbidden only after the fact is perhaps the most dramatic turn of all.

A judge was forced to rule to annul the union, saying that such a thing was never valid to begin with, even if the couple was unaware.

‘How could this happen? ‘

According to the UK Sun: “Each was adopted by different parents – who never told them they had a twin. It was not clear how they eventually discovered that they were brother and sister.”

Already experts are in a tizzy with wonder at the strange sequence of events. It seems natural that two people who share so much would grow to savor one another, but the speculation on the matter seems boundless.

How can a person not know his or her own sibling? Well, if someone has thought his or her whole life that he or she was an only child, then the mind would cling to that belief, even in the face of the truth. This is surely a case of the head and the heart both leading people down the disagreeable path. Imagine the horror or suddenly discovering everything important to you in your life was a lie – in the worst way possible.

Already, British law states that a child has the right to identify his or her biological parents upon turning 18. However, the law does not require that the adoptive parents be the ones to fess up. But who would think to ask the government ‘am I adopted? ‘

‘I love you like a brother.’

According to Lord Alton, a British Legislator, and a slew of experts, the twins’ attraction was inevitable. Because they shared 50% of their genes, and even the same womb – at the same time – there must have been an fantastic sync between the two. From favorite hobbies, to mannerisms, even to facial expressions, the relationship must have seemed to be the work of the hand of destiny. ‘Soul Mates’ doesn’t even begin to describe the connection they must have felt.

‘What now? ‘

Since the identities of the twins are not known, there is no telling where their story will go from here. One can’t help but wonder, though, if this seemingly impossible situation were to happen, ‘what would I do? ‘

(Excerpted from ‘The Belrad Universe Show’, January 14th, 2008. Get more at www.BelradUniverse.com)

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The abuses and discontent that led to the Protestant Reformation instigated the formation of various splinter denominations within, and without, the Catholic Church. In many ways, it was a deny challenge to the traditions, dogma, hierarchy, and protocol fomented by the Church, an institution which the populations of Europe felt had lost touch with its laity. As a consequence, dissenters gravitated to the movements forged by the reformers John Calvin, Martin Luther, Ulrich Zwigli, and others. The revolutionary spirit also inspired a search for truth through other outlets of society. Some intellectuals reinvested their faith in empirical pursuits, searching for God in the workings and majesty of nature. Until the onset of the Scientific Revolution, the disciplines of ‘Science’ and ‘Religion’ existed homogenously, married in the pursuit of truth. The Reformation, however, with its break from convention, enabled a diversity of thought and exploration that led the way to a revolution: the divorce of science and theology. Disillusioned with the Church and inspired by the insurrectionary spirit of the Reformation, Man looked to the sky in search of the divine and found science.

When Martin Luther nailed his Ninety-Five Theses on the Wittenberg Cathedral doors on October 31st of 1517, he unknowingly catalyzed a movement that changed the spiritual and political hegemony of the Catholic Church in the West forever. This marked what most historians deem the birth of the Protestant Reformation, although its antecedents approach farther back in time. His treatise on the corruptions of the Church was a vow response to the scurrilous sale of indulgences, and other nefarious practices. Others soon followed Luther’s example, however, derision erupted between the factions of Protestant philosophy shortly thereafter.

The chronological coincidence of the Protestant Reformation (1517-1648) and the Scientific Revolution (1543-1687) suggests a correlation between the two. Although a direct causal relationship may be impossible to ascertain, the two movements part similar directives and directions. Both stem from a revolutionary freedom of thought that steer their disciplines on different courses (though much of the time, the two heading in the same direction).

Francis Bacon, the English philosopher, statesman, and author is commonly attributed with catalyzing the Scientific Revolution and establishing some of the basic tenets of modern science. His conception of an empirical based scientific method—a rejection of the Aristotelian deductive approach—helped to revolutionize the discipline. Bacon believed that the Protestant Reformation created an atmosphere conducive to the reformation of the empirical disciplines as well:

When it pleased God to call the Church of Rome to account for their degenerate manners and ceremonies, and sundry doctrines scandalous and framed to uphold the same abuses; at one and the same time was ordained by the Divine Providence that there should attend withal a renovation and new spring of all other knowledges.[1]

Notice that Bacon, although speaking of the pursuit of knowledge, refers to “God” and a “Divine Providence.” This illustrates the relationship that existed between science and religion at the time. The environment created by the Reformation enabled the development of modern science by moving theology away from a reliance on authorities for religious guidance towards a more self-exploratory experience.[2]

The church of science was not a new entity in the 17th Century, or obvious for that matter, from the pursuit of divine truth. In the secular context of contemporary Western society, science and religion play roles of almost complete opposition: the first consisting of empirical knowledge gathered to prove or disprove; the latter defined by a collective state of beliefs and ritual commitments centered on a common faith. The evolution of the two bodies share greater similarities than differences, commonalities that have significant influence over the Middle and late Middle Ages. The dual categories of ‘Science’ and ‘Religion’ coexisted as a homogenous entity (although in much different evolutionary forms), instigated by religious motives, ragged to pursue theological investigation.

The contemporary relationship between science and religion as two independent, often adversarial mechanisms is a relatively young phenomenon. Similarly, the modern forms of the two disciplines tiny resemble their genealogical ancestors. Historiography plays a significant role in framing this debate. The definitions of the terms “Science,” “Religion,” and “Natural Philosophy,” their evolution over time, and the context in which each respective term exists, are vital to understanding the significance of their variable and contrasting genealogies.

The dynamic etymology of the term “science” creates difficulty in establishing a uniform standard of science. The constant nature of change complicates the relationship of different periods in time, perpetuating the “anachronistic assumption that the study of nature in earlier historical periods was prosecuted more or less along the same lines as those adopted by modern scientists.”[3] This potential source of confusion illustrates the difficulty in assigning science an identity. An ambiguity exists between the modern definition and that used during the middle ages. The origins of the term science stem from the Latin, scientia. Scholars used scientia to narrate the highest form of knowledge. During Renaissance times, scholars also used scientia to describe the study of theology and natural philosophy, deeming them ‘sciences.’ The term, when primitive in this context, obviously cannot be understood to relate to unique definitions of science. This universal application of scientia only helps to obfuscate its meaning. This illustrates the confusion this debate conjures.[4]

Conventional histories of science attribute the Greeks with its conception, and the Scientific Revolution (the later stages), in the nineteenth century, with the origins of the “unique” discipline. The science historian G. E. R. Lloyd contests, however, that, “science is a modern category, not an ancient one: there is no one term that is exactly equivalent to our ‘science’ in Greek.”[5] Identifying a ubiquitous, uniform definition of science suggests an anachronism. The history of the term implies its tortuous evolution.[6]

Although scholars often overlook the interim (between the Greek Hellenistic period and the Scientific Revolution), or consider science of the Middle and Late Middle Ages inert, this period illustrates a crucial stage in the relationship between science and religion. Between the 1200s and the 1800s, natural philosophy nominally embodied the general practice of science (or the hiatus thereof). Natural philosophy, however, differed in essence from modern science, and existed as a unique apparatus.

Scholars believe current perceptions of science originated in the nineteenth century (William Whewell initially coined the term scientist in 1833). Prior to that, men of science (often synonymous with ‘men of faith’) considered themselves students of ‘natural philosophy’ or ‘natural history,’ and practiced a considerable different form of investigation then their twenty-first-century counterparts. Examining the relationship between science and religion during the Renaissance then leads to a complex conclusion, as Peter Harrison of Bond University illustrates: “This claim has positive ramifications for those whose concern lies with the past relationship between science and religion, for if it is fair, such a relationship cannot be older than the nineteenth century.”[7] With its relatively recent classification as well—during the European Enlightenment—religion, concurrently, provides the same concerns.[8]

Recent debate among science historians over this difference stands to change the conventional view of the history of science. Traditional views pit natural philosophy in line with the sing succession of science, claiming distinctions only in the periods of time, and stages of scientific development. New interpretations dissent from this plan, realigning natural philosophy outside of the confines of science. Andrew Cunningham of the University of Cambridge argues that “As a result, we have no histories of natural philosophy as such, only histories of ‘medieval science’ and of ‘early original science.’”[9] This presumed continuity ignores the existence of natural philosophy as a distinct discipline, independent of science. In fact, a demarcation existed between the two models. Simon Schaffer posited “The end of natural philosophy was accompanied by the appearance of models of discovery which appealed to discipline and to genius, and which have dominated theories of science ever since.”[10] Similarly, William Whewell argued that the emergence of trained scientists signaled the cessation of natural philosophy.[11]

Philisophia naturalis, or natural philosophy, as demonstrated, differed from science in a multitude of ways. Extant prior to the modern development of science, natural philosophy applied to the objective study of nature and the universe. First constructed by Robert Boyle in 1686, natural philosophy only gained connotation as an entity positive from science after his death, although modern historians apply it to earlier historical figures. Considered the forerunner of natural science, natural philosophy often operated in conjunction with theology and other philosophical tools. Cunningham characterized it as the study of “God’s achievements, God’s intentions, God’s purposes, God’s messages to man.”[12] The divine-humanity of Christ—the simultaneous activity of the two natures—nicely embodies the cognitive juxtaposition evident during this time. Frequently, theological or spiritual questions fueled natural investigation. For example, Charlotte Methuen claims that, “certain formulations of the doctrine of providence, with its assumption that God both created and sustained the world for the good of its human inhabitants; could provide an impulse towards the study of the natural world.”[13] In terms of logic: God created the natural world. A greater understanding of nature provided a greater understanding of God’s creation; thus a greater understanding of God.

An important distinction between the contemporary view of science and its progenitors reflects science’s symbiotic relationship with theology (devoid of course in today’s concept). In fact, during the Renaissance, science and theology operated homogeneously (represented by the term natural philosophy), espoused under the genre of natural sciences. The study of natural philosophy incorporated intellectual and philosophical conventions instigated by theological concerns, much in incompatibility to the novel, secular definition as a systematic arrangement of knowledge of the physical or material world, gained through observation and experimentation, and exhibiting the operation of general laws. The inextricable connection between theology and nature in Renaissance philosophy made it impossible to study either independently. Historians tend to draw on a contemporary base of knowledge when studying science’s history. Historian Charles Webster explains that, “Conclusions about the independence of scientific activity…are based not on the impartial and exhaustive examination of evidence, but are rather dictated by the requirements of current ideology, and describe not the relationship which actually existed, but the relationship which it is felt ought to have existed on the basis of present-day notion about the methodology of science.”[14]

The ability to classify the methods of earlier practitioners as incongruent with modern conventions provides the opportunity to fruitfully explore the relationship between natural philosophy and theology.

The nineteenth century witnessed science’s emergence as a discipline free of theology or religion. This split enabled the relationship between science and religion to exist, although some boundaries tended to blur. But, for the first time, institutions of science employed scientific practitioners independent of clerical influences. Science, as an independent entity espoused a professionalism. The British Association for the Advancement of Science appeared in the 1830s, followed by others. As science professionalized, encompassing the various disciplines of empirical thought, a new state of professional commitments and responsibilities materialized. Increasingly, the clergy reluctantly relinquished the hegemony they held over the wonders of nature. A.W. Benn noted, “A tall part of the reverence once given to priests and to their stories of an unseen universe has been transformed to the astronomer, the geologist, the physician, and the engineer.”[15] By the start of the twentieth century, science stood devoid of its former ethical and theological partners. The “wonders of nature” became the “wonders of science.” [16]

Similar to the discourse on the history of science, scholars approximate the foundation of religion, in its modern understanding, to the relatively recent period of the European Enlightenment. Wilfred Cantwell Smith describes the origination, writing, “The notion ‘religion,’ then, in the West has evolved. Its evolution has included a long-range development that we may term a process of reification: mentally making religion into a thing, gradually coming to conceive it as an honest systematic entity.”[17] This ‘systematic entity’ shifted focus from devotion to the search for truth. The characterization also allowed for the comparison of religions, and consequently instigated the science of comparative religion. This practice, which involved the categorization of people and their beliefs, provided a frame of reference for Western securitization. Subsequent to the Age of Discovery, and to the fabrication of ‘religion,’ Western notion in the nineteenth century recognized the “birth” of other religions: Hinduism, Taoism, Buddhism, and Confucianism; all of which existed much earlier. But the ‘creation’ of religion allowed for the distinguishment of unique bodies of faith.[18]

The nineteenth century, as it represented the emergence of science as an independent entity, also recognized religion as an institution free of science. With science and religion both autonomous entities, the urge to perpetuate the existence of conflict between the two became attractive. Advocates of the nascent scientific movement saw the political benefit of pitting their cause against the hegemonic institution of the Church, giving birth to the science-religion apposition myth. This myth claims that a fundamental rift between the institutions existed and has fomented over the course of this tenuous relationship. Whether extant during the nascent stages of the relationship or not, the two institutions clearly evolved into separate entities, independent of the other, and sometimes occupying positions of opposition.

The development of theology, neglected so far, also played an important role in the science/religion discussion. As with these previous terms, the relatively young “theology” appeared as a new discipline during the Renaissance. First appearing in Plato’s Republic, the term is a combination of theos, meaning god, and logos, meaning rational utterance, and defined as reasoned discourse about God. Modern theologians study the history of religion, religious thought, or religious traditions; defend doctrines or compare religious traditions. During the Renaissance, in the burgeoning university system, theology too fell under the auspice of science. It produced firm knowledge (science), prompting scholars to consider it a rational object (obviously a contradiction in today’s terms, but which makes sense when considering this developmental stage of theology relied on reason rather than on faith). This sense still, however, conflicts with the modern usage of the term.[19]

Histories of science scholars often use theology interchangeable with religion. The terms, however, are not synonymous. The first espouses the characteristics of a discipline, or mechanism. The latter, a term which comes along much later and that describes an objective systematic entity. The birth of theology as a discipline signaled an interest in the objective study of God in the state of scientific discovery during this time. This context provided a nonbelligerent atmosphere for theology to achieve its purpose.

Mirroring the evolution of the relationship between science and religion, theology transformed from a scientific discipline involved in the investigation of God and nature to one completely devoid of science, preoccupied with the pursuit of truth through scripture and the study of religion. Theology’s function coincided with that of the relationship of science and religion in natural philosophy. The trinity of these concepts comprised the unique confluence of this period.

The Renaissance distinguished itself by creating an atmosphere amicable to the confluence of religion, science, and theology. This harmony of these three ideas, although short lived, made possible the growth and emergence of each as independent entities. This harmony, the product of an intersection of classical thought and Christian hegemony—altogether impossible in contemporary Western society—becomes unsurprising when considered in the context of an epoch dominated by the Catholic Church. The picture becomes clearer also with the understanding of the evolution of these three entities. The push towards recognition of natural philosophy, its importance, and its distinction from the modern concept of science may provide a demystification of the conflict between science and religion and the ambiguous nature of scientific history.

The Protestant Reformation, in relation, created an intellectually freeing environment allowing for new and different scientific pursuits. Although still couched with theological investigation, some believed Protestantism gave direct and positive stimulus to scientific research. The encouragement of independent thought and valuing of practical forms of science (i.e. agriculture, medicine, etc.) were direct byproducts of this revolutionary thinking.

The Reformation created an atmosphere of incredulousness that extended to an expansion of interest in scientific endeavors. In a study conducted by Kenneth Thibodeau, the German city of Strasbourg, during the Reformation “witnessed a considerable expansion of both the scientific community and scientific publications,” adding that “both contracted” at the same time. He attributed this correlation to the fact that “The cultural disorientation and the demographic and social dislocation produced by the Reformation combined with the openness and excitement of Strasbourg as an intellectual center to create an environment favorable to science.”[20]

Men of faith increasingly delved into scientific pursuits. John Wilkins, for example, served both as a Bishop, founding a Protestant friendly denomination of the Church of England, and as a founding member of the Royal Society of London, the first scientific society of its kind. His aim was to combine the two pursuits, hoping to create a religion founded on natural philosophies.[21]

The Protestant Reformation signaled a break from conventional thinking and traditionally held beliefs, not only from the teachings of the Church, but from the confines of pre-modern deduction. The break from the Church opened avenues of intellectual investigation once prohibited by the Church and its doctrine. Scientists had the freedom to pursue controversial hypotheses that previously conjured heretical restrictions. It also attracted interest in new areas of research. Indeed, in the Protestant revolution, science found an ally with whom a reciprocal relationship formed. The Protestant mindset closely resembled the free thought of modern science. Although the advances made in the areas of science and math during this time were quite different than contemporary thought and scientific practices, they allowed for the evolution of these disciplines, forming the foundation of what is known as modern science.

The new Baconian empiricism also signaled the first cracks in a break between science and religion. A relatively new phenomenon, the separation of God and the pursuit of knowledge emerged as a result of, or at least influenced by, Protestant thinking. This will eventually lead to the mutual exclusion of faith and science; god and truth; assumption and fact. Man’s desire to understand the world and his place in it will never cease. During the Reformation, the realization of the irrelevancy of Church practices started a process of questioning and disillusionment. With this awakening, Man embarked on a bad religion; instead of looking out towards the sky in search of God, he started to look to nature itself for answers.

[1] Francis Bacon and Basil Montagu. The Works of Francis Bacon (Philadelphia: A. Hart, Late Carey & Hart, 1852), 176.

[2] Peter Rüst. “Dimensions of the Human Being and of Divine Action” Perspectives on Science and Christian Faith. Volume 57, Number 3, (September 2005), 192.

[3] Peter Harrison, “‘Science’ and ‘Religion’: Constructing the Boundaries,” Journal of Religion, Vol. 86, No. 1 (Jan. 2006): 82.

[4] Andrew Cunningham, “The Identity of Natural Philosophy. A Response to Edward Grant,” Early Science and Medicine, Vol. 5, No. 3. (2000): 260.

[5] G. E. R. Lloyd, Early Greek Science (New York: Norton, 1970), iv.

[6] Harrison, 82.

[7] Harrison, 81.

[8] Harrison, 86.

[9] Cunningham, 260.

[10] Simon Schaffer, “Scientific Discoveries and the End of Natural Philosophy,” Social Studies of Science, Vol. 16, No. 3. (Aug., 1986): 407.

[11] Whewell, William, History of the Inductive Sciences from the Earliest to the Present Time V2 (London: 2006): 16.

[12] Andrew Cunningham, “Getting the Game Right: Some Plain Words on the Identity and

Invention of Science,” Studies in the History and Philosophy of Science 19 (1988): 365.

[13] Methuen, Charlotte, “Lex Naturae And Ordo Naturae in the Thought of Philip Melanchthon,” Reformation & Renaissance Review: Journal of the Society for Reformation Studies, Iss. 3 (2000): 111.

[14] Charles Webster, The Great Instauration: Science, Medicine, and Reform, 1626-1660 (London: 1975), 494; The discussion on the term scientia are taken from: Cunningham, “The Identity of Natural Philosophy. A Response to Edward Grant,”260-261.

[15] A. W. Benn, A History of English Rationalism in the Nineteenth Century, 2 vols. (London:

Longmans, Green, & Todd, 1906), 1:198. Cited in: Harrison, 88.

[16] Harrison, 87.

[17] Harrison, 91.

[18] Harrison, 92-93.

[19] Cunningham, 260-261.

[20] Kenneth F. Thibodeau, “Science and the Reformation: The Case of Strasbourg.” Sixteenth Century Journal VII, 1 (April 1976), 50.

[21] Stephen F. Mason, R.R.S. “Bishop John Wilkins, R.R.S. (1614-72): Analogies of Thought-Style in the Protestant Reformation and Early Modern Science.” Wilkins Lecture, University of Oxford, 1991.

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Trying to understand a single woman that would have the audacity to sleep with someone else’s husband is not easy. There are many reasons, however, I thought we might take a brief look at some of the more common reasons why they do it, as well as what type of women would choose to do this in the first place.

To start with, this is not an empathetic type woman at all. Remember, empathy is having the ability to put your self in someone else’s place and understand how they might feel. Well it’s obvious to me this type of woman doesn’t waste one moment on trying to understand how the man’s wife would feel when she finds out about the affair, or how it may affect their children, and family life. An affair is a very devastating experience for everyone involved, well accept for the single woman who gets to walk away, and let everyone else smart up the mess.

She is obviously a very selfish person. She wants what she wants, and too awful for everyone else involved. Talk about self-centered. And No, it didn’t just happen, and No it’s Not okay because you really do love him. Guess what? It took awhile for you to fall in love with him, all the while Never stopping it, before it even got started. It must be satisfying believing you’re the only one that matters in this world!

This type of woman is usually sneaky, and manipulative. Not only does she have to sneak around trying to not get caught by the wife, she also usually has something up her sleeve when it comes to the man she is alive to with. Remember, she has to continuously keep manipulating this man to keep him hanging on. Believe it or not a lot of husband’s may have pangs of doubt, shame, and guilt when having an affair. It takes a really manipulative woman to keep him believing that what their doing is acceptable and that he shouldn’t feel bad about it.

So, why do these woman go after married men? Well, sometimes it’s because their just as commitment phobic as the men we here so much about. A married man is the perfect respond for this type of woman. She gets all the goodies without any commitment. She knows the chances of him leaving his wife is slim, and that’s how she likes it.

Sometimes these women are just greedy and lazy. Some married men are more than willing to set them up in an apartment, pay them an allowance, and supply them with regular gifts. This woman believes why struggle on my own, when a married man is willing to support them, for an occasional role in the hay.

Some of these women just plain don’t have any morals or values. Perhaps they weren’t raised with any, who knows? What I do know is anyone with even the slightest sense of morality and values could not possibly reflect that helping to destroy a marriage or family is okay. Perhaps theses type of women will never understand it, until it happens to them. Then watch out, they become the biggest victims on the face of the earth. A shame they didn’t understand it when they were the ones who were doing the destroying.

Well there you have it, a brief observe at the single woman who chooses to have sex with a married man. Please know this article is strictly about the single woman involved in the affair. This does not salvage the married man off the hook, or support him of his responsibility to his family. He is just as guilty as the woman he is sleeping with!

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